Building Positive Attitude

BUILDING POSITIVE ATTITUDE

In villages farmer performs following steps for harvesting a new desired crop.

• Crop selection

• Land Preparation

• Seed Sowing

• Irrigation

• Fertilizing

• Harvesting

Like above a man has to perform and implement set of activities inside his mind, to cultivate a desired habit.

New habit or activity to implement ( crop selection )
Preparing mind to implement new habit or activity ( land preparation )
Forming constraints and self control ( seed sowing )
Forming better attitude ( irrigation and fertilizing )
Implementing a new habit or activity ( Harvesting )

I strongly recommend to step "prepare your mind" for performing a new activity, since its very difficult to harvest a new crop without performing land preparation. Like irrigation and fertilizing its required to form a better attitude to reap a new habit.

Below is a simple story which teach us the value of best principles.
Reap what you sow (Past)
Sow good for better tomorrow

A frail old man went to live with his son, daughter-in-law, and four-year old grandson. The old man’s hands trembled, his eyesight was blurred, and his step faltered. The family ate together at the table. But the elderly grandfather’s shaky hands and failing sight made eating difficult. Peas rolled off his spoon onto the floor. When he grasped the glass, milk spilled on the tablecloth. The son and daughter-in-law became irritated with the mess. “We must do something about father,” said the son. “I’ve had enough of his spilled milk, noisy eating, and food on the floor.” So the husband and wife set a small table in the corner. There, Grandfather ate alone while the rest of the family enjoyed dinner. Since Grandfather had broken a dish or two, his food was served in a wooden bowl! When the family glanced in Grandfather’s direction, sometime he had a tear in his eye as he sat alone. Still, the only words the couple had for him were sharp admonitions when he dropped a fork or spilled food.
The four-year-old watched it all in silence.
One evening before supper, the father noticed his son playing with wood scraps on the floor. He asked the child sweetly, “What are you making?” Just as sweetly, the boy responded, “Oh, I am making a little bowl for you and Mama to eat your food in when I grow up.” The four-year-old smiled and went back to work .
The words so struck the parents so that they were speechless. Then tears started to stream down their cheeks. Though no word was spoken, both knew what must be done. That evening the husband took Grandfather’s hand and gently led him back to the family table. For the remainder of his days he ate every meal with the family. And for some reason, neither husband nor wife seemed to care any longer when a fork was dropped, milk spilled, or the tablecloth soiled

Think positive ( Present ) All are good

We all knew the story of David and goliath. David is small as compare to goliath and faced a situation to fight with the goliath. Everybody thought the David is as small as to win the huge goliath but David thought that the goliath is as huge as to miss the target and remaining is the story.

Up to god there is no positive or bad situations, every situations is a mixture of negative and positive possibilities. If u grab the positive possibility u win and u grab negative u lose, this is the theory of god. So whatever had happened in your life grap the positive and win. This life is yours and god made you to win.

Subconscious minds power. ( future)

The subconscious mind have the power of forming our future. If we expect the good the nature will provide you good and if we expect bad nature will give you bad and sorrow. So make your mind as like a flower garden and form a better future.

But don’t forget "You are the one to make your life best"

All the best.